CONTENTS
The Whole Lesbian Sex Book
A Passionate Guide for All of Us
Felice Newman
Preface to the Second Edition
Introduction
1. WELCOME
2. DESIRE AND FANTASY
What’s Your Fetish?
Run Wild
Make Your Dreams Come True
Nurture Your Libido
Sex + Intimacy
Fantasy
Lesbian Porn
3. ANATOMY AND SEXUAL RESPONSE
Anatomy
Sexual Response
Sexual Response over a Lifetime
4. ORGASM
This Is Taking Too Long
If You Can’t Have an Orgasm
Does Viagra Work for Women?
How Do You Come?
Getting Her Off
Multiple Orgasms
Tantra and Extended Orgasms
Ejaculation
5. THE ROAD TO HEAVEN LEADS TO YOU
A Love/Hate Relationship
Take a Good Look
Appreciate Yourself
Take It In
Join the Crowd
Get Into Your Body
Somatic Healing
You Are What You Eat
Get a Pelvic Exam
Safer Sex, Please
Be Present
Life Changes
6. MASTURBATION
What Will Masturbation Do for You?
The Masturbation Workshop Adventure
Teach Yourself Some New Tricks
How-To’s of Masturbation
Solo Toys
Erotica and Fantasy
How-To’s of Orgasm
Masturbating with a Partner
7. COMMUNICATION AND FINDING SEX PARTNERS
Geography, Not Destiny
Talk Talk Talk
Tongue-Tied?
Who Are You Looking For?
Making Your Move
“No,Thank You”
Personal Ads in Newspapers and Magazines
Sex on the Internet
Play Safe
Sex Parties
Sex Talk Guidelines
Where to Learn More
8. SEX AND PARTNERSHIP
Erotic Intimacy
What Kind of Sex Life Do You Want, Anyway?
What Kind of Partnership Do You Want?
You Make It Happen
What’s Holding You Back?
Low Libido High Libido One Libido No Libido
What? No Sex?
Find Your Passion
Sexual Community
Keep It Happening
9. BREAST PLAY
Sensitivity
Teach Your Partner
How-To’s of Breast Play
Nipple Piercings
Toys for Breast Play
10. CLITORAL PLAY
The Art of the Hand
Take a Tour
What If Your Hand Gets Tired?
Frottage
How-To’s of Clitoral Stimulation
Genital Piercings
Genital Shaving
How-To’s of Genital Shaving
Toys for Clitoral Play
Clitoral Play—Safely
Where to Learn More
11. ORAL SEX
Cunnilingus
Going Down on Your Girl
How-To’s of Cunnilingus
Analingus
How-To’s of Analingus
Positions for Oral Sex
What a Pain in the Neck!
(Detachable) Cocksucking
How to Suck (Detachable) Cock
Oral Sex—Safely
So What’s a Girl to Do?
12. VAGINAL PENETRATION
Take a Tour
Finger-Fucking
Vaginal Fisting
Strap-On Dildos
How-To’s of Vaginal Penetration
Positions for Vaginal Penetration
Toys for Vaginal Play
Vaginal Penetration—Safely
Where to Learn More
13. ANAL PENETRATION
Take a Tour
Basic Preparations
Finger-Fucking
Anal Fisting
Strap-On Dildos
How-To’s of Anal Penetration
Positions for Anal Penetration
Toys for Anal Penetration
Anal Penetration—Safely
Where to Learn More
14. GENDER (NOT DESTINY)
What Is Gender?
Intersexuality
Transgender and Transsexual
Partners of Transgendered Women and Men
Sexual Orientation
Playing with the Boys
Butch/Femme
15. PLAY NICE! (…OR ELSE)
Ouch!!! (Yum…)
Negotiation
Creating the S/M Scene: Ritual and Theater
Pushing the Emotional Edges
Teach Yourself Some New Tricks
How Do You Know What You Want?
Toys for BDSM Play
That Sounds Dangerous!
BDSM Play—Safely
Where to Learn More
16. PLAY PARTIES AND PUBLIC SEX
Commercial Sex
Play Parties
How to Have Fun at a Sex Party
Where to Find Play Parties
Play Party Etiquette
How to Throw a Safer-Sex Party
17. SEX TOYS AND ACCOUTREMENTS
How to Choose Sex Toys
Got Your Lube?
Got Your Safer-Sex Supplies?
Does Latex Make You Itch?
How’s Your Budget?
How to Care for Your Toys
18. SAFER SEX AND GYNECOLOGICAL HEALTH
Talking to Your Doctor About Sex
Gynecological Care
STDs and Gynecological Concerns
What If Your Partner Won’t Use Barriers?
What If You Have an STD?
19. BIBLIOGRAPHY
20. RESOURCES
NOTES
INDEX
ILLUSTRATIONS
Female Anatomy (External)
Female Anatomy (Internal)
Making a Dental Dam
Masturbating with a Partner
Cunnilingus
Cunnilingus, Receptive Partner on Top
Analingus
(Detachable) Cocksucking
Vaginal Finger-Fucking
Vaginal Fisting
Vaginal Penetration with Strap-On
Anal Finger-Fucking
Anal Fisting
Anal Penetration with Strap-On
Anal Penetration with Butt Plug
Over-the-Knee Spanking
Seated Rope Bondage
Whipping
Tit Play with Needles and Clamps
Vibrators
Dildos and Harnesses
Anal Toys
Copyright 2004 by Felice Newman.
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