The first complete guide to dildos and harnesses! For everyone interested in strap-on play—women and men of all sexual orientations and genders. Here's everything you need to know to have great strap-on sex:

• How to choose vibrators, dildos, and harnesses, and get the most out of your sex toys
• How to introduce sex toys into partner sex
• Tips and techniques to make you a strap-on stud
• Adapting strap-on sex for self-stimulation
• Using dildos and harnesses in anal sex
• Packing, genderbending, and fantasy
• A guide to strap-on use for men
• Clit pumping and other advanced sexual techniques
• Fairy Butch's guide to selecting lubricants
• Plus, a comprehensive resource guide of books, magazines, retail and mail order outlets

"Every generation produces its own sexpert. Right now, that voice belongs to Fairy Butch." —Details Magazine

KARLYN LOTNEY, known to thousands of readers as Fairy Butch, dispenses sex advice on PlanetOut.com and in Curve Magazine. She is the resident dildo expert at Good Vibrations sex store. She lives in San Francisco.